Friday, April 2, 2010

My BFF's

Here is a list of my BFF's....not that i was asked for one...but i thought if something happens to me tomorrow (knock knock)...my (close) friends should atleast know their value in my life...and no this is not some PR activity...some of you may find it surprising to find your name here...thats coz i never really let you know how important you are to me...but each one of you is special to me...and i can proudly say that i dont have "A" best friend...i have all of you..:)

List is in no specific order and just like me is...Random

Aarti - Also known as my mirror image (we are two peas in a pod)...First met her during my interview for admission in XIC...instantly i dont know why but i dint like her...i guess becoz she was too happy and talking tooo much (a trait i now love)...but she is the kinda person who grows on you...a few months into college and we bonded...Delhi brought us closer and our LOVE for shopping got us even more closer...


Abhishek - Our pair is like Priety Zinta and Atal Bihari Vajpayee as a couple (yikes)...He is as slow and profound as the politican and i am as bubbly as her...We share what is popularly know as the 'love hate' relationship...there are times(and many of them actually) where i LOVE to hate him...if there ever was a need for the title character of the series LOST i wud recommend him to act the character (he doesnt need to act though, he is born with that trait)...I hate to admit but i am fond of him...anymore on him and he will think i love him...next...

Anu - Easily my Oldest friend...our friendship has lasted 3 decades...but if u ask her she will tell you that the ride has not been as smooth as riding a Merc S class on the bandra worli sealink...we are 25 yr ol's but we still fight over silly stuff...but we both know we'll make up before the next 24 hours...we are like soul sisters...there cannot be 2 people more alike yet different...from having my 1st stayover in her house at the age of 6 to being the bridesmaid at her wedding...we literally have grown up together.

Menaka - My school cum college friend....we have seen our share of whirlwind romances and from disaster double dates to talking on the phone for a good 3-4 hours at 2 in the morning...we have been there, done that! We are very unlike each other, and i think that is the USP of our friendship. One of my happiest day will be to see you walk down the aisle with cassy...and the day i will see that i know i will be a very happy cupid!

Lydia - She is my Bible...literally...i LOVE her for her spirituality and words of wisdom....wenever i am low I go to her to find some inspirational quotes...so many stories of joy and pain between us....we are each others 'comfort friend'...she is what they say truly beautiful from inside out.

Mrinalika - My sister from another mister...we are as cool as the Audi A6...we bonded at our workplace and if there is anythin i thank TIMES NOW for it is for Mina...when the going gets tough, Mina and I get going...to a new place, eatery, movie watever....when we get together we not only paint the town red but purple, pink, green, blue, orange, magenta.....!
Sonika - Definitely a contender for my bridesmaid position...we arent exactly chaddi buddies but i think more than that...my 'agony aunt' as i love to call her....we share this great understanding of some of the complex issues in life (read Men)...and then some other issues (like her not able to gain weight and me lose it)...basically we talk nonsense and nonstop all day long like Sidhu and we bond like KJo and SRK (except we are not gay!)


Noel - My 'Bunker' friend...thats coz we used to bunk mass together and go sit under some tree and talk or roam around and be back in time for communion..;)...he is younger to me and so i think i bully him a lot....from playing practical jokes on him to lecturing him...we both can tell each other our deepest secrets and be guaranteed than it will be spilled out in less than 6 hours to some third person (actually he is the only one who practices this)...yet we cant help but tell each other everything (ok, most of it!)


Varun - He is my Gossip Girl (pun intended)...love him or hate him...you cant ignore Varun kumari...my Biatch...he loves bitching..and loves being bitched about as well (coz he thinks that makes him popular!)...the anchor of my life (literally, only!)...he is every persons nightmare (dont ask me for reasons, too many)...yet he and I get along like kerosene and fire (no prizes for guessing who the fire is).


Clyde - He is my man-angel. And I am his devil.Whenever I play damsel in distress, he is there for me. I can never thank him enough for being part of my life. Just knowing that he is a part of my life, is gratifying and calming. And he will always be.


Sanyogita - The sweet, smiley and sober friend of mine...she has seen my most animated avatar (when i bit aarti's hand) and my creative side (Bail from the Snail)...Yet she chose to be my friend (i must say you have good taste)...XIC wudnt have been the same without you sanyo - my Drug of Life..;)


If some of you don't feature in this list...its only because you haven't paid me well in cash or kind like the above have....but like RGV, I like sequels too and there may be a BFF part 2 soon...so start being really nice to me...rite now!

Monday, March 8, 2010

For the times they are-a changing!

Year - 2004
I - 'Mom dad, I am 18 years old and I need a mobile phone. Most students in college have one'
Year - 2010
Sis-in-law to niece - 'Happy 1st b'day Tia, here is a mobile phone for you'

Year - 2006
I - Hey Gia, scrap me on Orkut and stay in touch.
Year - 2010
I - Hey Gia, tweet me your updates.

Year - 2000
I - Hey, that's a nice pic of you. You should frame it!
Year - 2010
I - Hey, that's a nice pic of you. You should make it your profile pic!


Year - 2001
KBC, Kahani ghar ghar ki, Kyunki saas bhi..., Friends...
Year - 2009
Balika vadu, Swayamvars, Emotional Attyachar, 30 Rock....

Year - 2006
Himesh Reshammiya is such a bad singer
Year - 2008
Himesh Reshammiya is such a bad singer AND actor!

Year - 1999
A perfect figure is 36-24-36.
Year - 2009
A perfect figure is a size 0!!

Year - 2000
Girl - I think I am in love with you!
Boy - Hmmm...ok, I need more time, space and i don't know about commitment blah blah...
Year - 2010
Girl- I think I am in love with you!
Boy - Hmmm...ok, I need more time, space and i don't know about commitment blah blah...

Ok, so some things don't change EVER!

Sunday, February 28, 2010

Paper Heart

Sometimes I just wanna shut that door...that door where you still peep and go.
Don't want to remain in this darkness...just want to be left alone.
I wish to give you things I could give no one else,
But the fear is, will you keep it or take it to sell?
Why is it that I have to see you merge with the sunset?
Why is it that I am just another wave in your ocean?
In your unfeeling, I feel.
I dont want to be your nothingness no more.
A paper heart was torn and burnt,
And all that remains now are the ashes,
Ashes of Us!

Monday, January 25, 2010

I miss You!

I miss seeing your face which brightens my worst days....
I miss sitting next to you and making you listen to my endless stories....
I miss the absurd conversations that we have that only U & I understand....
I miss teasing you on how little you eat while I feast on my food....
I miss hearing that sweet noise you make when i blow below your neck....
I miss distracting you when you watch TV in full concentration....
I miss having your fingers play with mine....
I miss the way you dont want to let go of me and ask me to stay even when its late....
I miss seeing you smile at me when i meet you at the end of the day....
I miss hugging you and holding you close to me....
I miss the sweet kisses that you plant on my cheeks when I am not expecting it....
I miss you......

I miss you Tiara...my lil' muchigun...my adorable niece....I miss you immensely when you go to your maternal house. I love you a lot.

P.S - The author of the blog is not a pedophile.